Dog training articles that offers tips and insights from your dog's point of view
How to know when it's time to let go
“Dogs, lives are short, too short, but you know that going in. You know the pain is coming, you're going to lose a dog, and there's going to be great anguish, so you live fully in the moment with her, never fail to share her joy or delight in her innocence, because you can't support the illusion that a dog can be your lifelong companion. There's such beauty in the hard honesty of that, in accepting and giving love while always aware that it comes with an unbearable price. Maybe loving dogs is a way we do penance for all the other illusions we allow ourselves and the mistakes we make because of those illusions.”
Dean Koontz - The Darkest Evening of the Year
When we get a dog we accept one sad fact - that we will outlive them. It’s something we don’t like to talk about or think about, but we know it in the back of our minds. We let the knowledge of this fact prompt us to be present and enjoy every moment together.
An important part of loving our dogs is giving them a peaceful and graceful end of life. Instead, with a heart full of love, many well intentioned owners keep their dogs alive too long with uncomfortable medical interventions and only take the final step of euthanasia when their hand is forced instead of at a more compassionate time.
As my own dog gets older I’m learning about how the needs of a dog change with passing years. I’m making sure to keep Harley’s teeth clean, get yearly senior blood panels, keep her fit while being considerate of her diminishing stamina, and advocating for her when we are out in public by keeping large, excited puppies away from her so she doesn’t get hurt.
It’s important to start thinking about your end of life plan for your pet before you need to. When your dog gets older or ill, emotions will be running high and you won’t be able to think clearly. The most important thing to be guided by is their comfort and quality of life. My friend who recently lost his dog commented that he wished there was more advocacy for his dog’s comfort at his final diagnostic vet appointment. They offered to do tests and treatments, but didn’t talk about how to navigate the dying process with the dog's best interest leading the way.
Quality of Life
As your dog ages, keep checking in on their quality of life. Usually the decline is very gradual and shifts over time can be hard to notice day to day. It can help to compare their behavior not to yesterday or last week, but several months before as a way of checking in.
Dogs are prone to hiding their pain or don’t express it in ways that we intuitively understand. These behaviors may indicate a dog is in pain:
Irregular behavior patterns
A higher than normal anxiety level
Excessive panting or gasping for breath
No longer enjoying or seeking out contact with you and the rest of the family
Reluctance to move or consistent pacing especially at night; restlessness
Avoidance of their favorite activities
Changes in the dynamic between them and other pets in the house
Seeking out unusual places to sleep or hide
While vets can offer painkillers that can manage pain, because it’s so hard for dogs to communicate the level or location of their pain, this isn’t as safe or sustainable of a long term option for dogs as it is for humans.
It’s also a good idea to have a dollar number in mind of how much you are able to invest in your dog’s treatment or care. When considering potential testing or treatments, it’s important to consider the dog’s age, the invasiveness of the treatment, the potential side effects, probability of improvement and to weigh the costs and benefits. You can also consider alternative therapies like massage, acupuncture, chiropractic treatments, physical therapy and CBD as a way to improve or manage their quality of life.
When things get hard
As dog’s age, there will often be a sudden decline. This is usually marked by a lack of interest in food and subsequent weight loss, drop in energy level, trouble breathing or moving around, change in coat or hygiene habits, and less frequent urination or incontinence. When you notice these symptoms, track them using a journal. You’ll want to keep track of bathroom activities, feeding time and amounts and any symptoms.
At this time it’s a good idea to contact some in home euthanasia services so you have options arranged when the time comes. A trip to the vet can cause a dying dog additional stress, so having them euthanized at home is preferable even though the cost is higher.
How to know when it’s time
Very few dogs die a natural and peaceful death. That is unfortunately an extremely rare way to go. You will most likely need to monitor your dog closely and decide when and how to euthanize them. Preventing your dog from having undue suffering and maximizing the enjoyment they have left should be your guiding pillars. Vets say that it is far better to be one week or one month too early than to be one or two days too late. This is a time where we truly need to put our dogs’ well being ahead of our own.
Remember, your dog is likely to hide their pain and to do what they have done their whole lives, try to please you. That means seeming more okay than they are and staying around for you. It’s important you know your bar for suffering before this stage so you can make the call you need to at the appropriate time. Afraid to end their pet’s life too early, many people wait too long, until the end is absolutely undeniably upon them and there is no other choice. This can involve a dog having seizures or other traumatic medical experiences that are ultimately unnecessary. It may be time to book the appointment when your dog shows:
-lack of enjoyment in activities
-incontinence
-struggling to stand or walk
-restlessness
-refusal to eat or drink
The OSU and ‘HHHHHMM’ Quality of Life scales can help you evaluate your dog’s quality of life using barometrics that can help take emotions out of the equation and make the decision somewhat less subjective.
Caring for a dying pet can take a toll on the caregiver as well. Don’t forget to take care of yourself. Be sure to eat, rest and ask for support. That can be in the form of people checking on you, helping to gather supplies, or attend to your pet so you can rest or run errands.
Enjoying the last few days
Keeping your dog’s limitations in mind, help them enjoy their final days. The best gift you can give your dog in life and death is your presence. Resist the urge to self soothe with TV or social media and simply ‘be’ with them. You can lay a blanket in your yard and relax in the sun, take them for a car ride, feed them people food, go to the park, invite human and dog friends to come see them, let them smell all the smells and pee on everything they want to.
Animals communicate nonverbally, so take this time to sit with your dog and hold some of your favorite memories in your mind and heart. Look through old photos and tell them stories of some of your favorite days together. Cry when you have to, but remember to hold a beautiful vision of your life together, of a peaceful transition, and of a future in which they return to oneness with all things beyond their physical form. A friend of mine likes to say of his dogs that passed “they are closer to me than ever.” While death is an ending, it isn’t the ending and your pet will always be in your heart.
Preparing your space
Doing the procedure at home is preferable to bringing your dog to a vet. You don’t have to transport them at this stage and they will be comfortable in a familiar environment. When your dog starts to decline, call around and talk to a few in home euthanasia services in your area so you know the prices and availability for when you are ready to book your appointment. Know that once the professional arrives at your house the process will be very fast so say your goodbyes before they arrive.
You want your dog to have a comfortable place to lay. There is a chance they will release their bowels or bladder, so be prepared for that by laying garbage bags or a tarp below the towel or blanket they are on. Move furniture so that the professional and your family will have enough room to maneuver around. If your dog is still taking food, you may want to offer them some bacon or meat before or during the procedure.
While vets will give you the option to leave the room, we recommend that you stay with your dog so they can die in your arms. Vets say that when owners choose to leave the dog usually looks for them and is more distressed. After years of loyalty and affection, we owe it to our dogs to offer them all the comfort we can in their final moments, even if it is hard for us.
What happens after
You have a few options when it comes to your dog’s remains. You can bury them on your or a friend’s property, put them in a pet cemetery, have them cremated, or have the vet or euthanasia service dispose of their body. No matter what option you chose, you will think of them everyday and they will live on in your heart. You may keep your dog at home, but not for longer than 24 hours in a cool room. You also want to be sure to sanitize the areas they were. The city of Austin offers a pick up service. Regardless of what you choose to do with their remains, you may want to create a memorial for them in a beloved spot you enjoyed together and plant a tree or plant.
The first few days after your dog’s death will be hard even though you have had some time to prepare. You may want to leave town so you aren’t in the home you shared without them. Plan on giving yourself plenty and time and space to feel and cry and remember and grieve. Grieving doesn’t have a start and end, but rather many layers that will unfold over time. Let yourself take the time you need. Let your friends support you by bringing food and sitting with you. Though there is no short cut, my advice for moving through grief is to eat, move, and spend time in nature every day.
There are some grief support groups you can join to talk to other people who are going through the same thing. Grief is hard to discuss with people who aren’t in it. Even if the people close to you don’t know what to say or do, they still love you and want to be there for you. You can help guide people as best you can. Let them know they don’t need to make it better, just to physically be there, to listen and let you be sad.
Moving on
Though it may be tempting, we don’t recommend getting another dog on the heels of losing a dog. If you know anything about our style of training, we believe that the best way to love a dog is to maintain a stable nervous system. Anyone grieving won’t be able to send a new dog the leadership cues they need to trust you and feel comfortable as they begin their new life with you. There is also no dog that could replace the friend you lost. Some people say they resent the new dog for not being more like their old one and it takes longer to bond.
You may want to enjoy the time between pets by taking a trip. If you miss having a walking companion, borrow a friend’s dog for a hike - chances are you know plenty of dogs not getting enough exercise. When you are ready, read our articles on picking the right dog, either from a reputable breeder or rescue and begin a new chapter of dog ownership.
Picking the best food for your dog
Try on this perspective on today’s dog food industry. Imagine if you woke up 50 years from now and your child was feeding your grandchild something called 'kid food,’ essentially cereal. Like today, there are many brands of cereal with different flavors and recipes and claims to nutrition and quality. So your child asks you what is the best 'kid food' to feed your grandchild, because the Kashi of kid food is the healthiest, but his child prefers the Frosted Flakes of kid food, which claims to have daily vitamins, but is full of sugar. You would think, “what the heck! Don't feed your kids that and only that. That isn't all kids are supposed to be eating!” This is the current state of dog food. Dog’s are not designed to eat a diet of only cooked food and all kibble is cooked. It also is augmented with filler ingredients other than animal protein that are not healthy for dogs to have a daily basis. While some people argue that they can digest it, therefore it’s an appropriate diet, to that I reply that just because I CAN digest McDonald’s, doesn’t mean I should, and certainly not on a daily basis.
The modern concept of dog food began after World War II, before which dogs ate a combination of table scraps and scraps from the butcher. During this period, many pet dogs were put out during the day and allowed to wander, therefore, kill small prey or scavenge to supplement their diet. During WWII, tin was rationed, which put a stop to dog food canning. In an effort to keep factories productive after the war, dog food made from meat byproduct and cheap fillers that could be dried and bagged was the perfect answer to meet this commercial and industrial need. This type of feeding was easier and more palatable for pet owners, who traditionally don’t enjoy handling the raw meat and organs that dogs need. The smell of kibble has actually been scientifically balanced to find the perfect balance between a rancid enough to entice dogs and a palatable enough for humans to stomach and to keep in their homes.
The design of dog food has evolved to meet the desires of dog owners, which is now gravitating towards people’s limited knowledge of the benefit of raw food. Unfortunately, this lures owners with limited education into a false sense of doing what is best for their dogs. Unlike what the salesman at even the best pet store will tell you, raw food and kibble utilize very different digestive processes and should never be mixed. Not in the same day, not in the same diet, not ever. A proper diet must be only raw or only kibble, with canned food only being fed when prescribed by the vet for short term treatment of digestive issues or not at all.
How to tell if your food is good
Just like humans, a dog should be regularly having healthy, solid bowl movements. A dog’s stool is the best indicator of the quality of their food and how well it is agreeing with them. You don’t want your dog’s poo to be too large for the size of your dog, fluffy or soft (like frozen yogurt), uniformly shaped (like a sausage), stinky, acidic, frequent or too light or dark in color. The more fillers a dog food has, the more metabolically expensive it can be for your dog - the energy that it takes to digest and process their low quality food can negate it’s limited nutritional benefits. When nutrition is limited, a dog’s body will stop nourishing the less essential organs, such as eyes, ears, skin, and coat. When your dog has abundant nutrition, you will notice that their coat becomes incredibly soft and shiny, their ears cleaner.
Rules of thumb for buying kibble
Start at a pet store. If you can buy dog food at the grocery store, price will be cheap and the quality will be poor. Pet food should only be purchased at a pet store, ideally one that will take back a partially full bag as you try to find a food that is the right fit for your dog. Don’t be seduced into buying treats or raw toppers, those don’t align with my understanding of the canine digestive process. I don’t feed my dog any food outside of a full meal. Dogs are not designed to snack and one bite of food produces a meals worth of acid. Instead, dogs are designed to fast, eating only when they are able to kill or scavenge instead of on a regular feeding schedule. At all costs avoid any food with food coloring. Science Diet is the lowest possible quality and not only should you not purchase it, but you should avoid doing business with any vet who sells it as they value brand funding over your animal’s health. It is important to know that vets, just like pet store employees, do not receive a comprehensive education in nutrition. They will often caution against feeding raw because of the potential liability. To that I would counter that dog foods have had many recalls over the years, but how many recalls have there been for human grade chicken or other meats? While humans are protected from parasites and bacteria in meat by cooking our food, our dogs have stomach acid that is 10 times stronger than ours. The same way they can eat carrion that is beginning to decay and not get sick, they can eat raw meat in a way that isn’t safe for a human to do.
When feeding dry food, it is important not to free feed, leaving a bowl down all day and giving your dog a choice about when and how much to eat. Our dog’s stomachs are not designed to snack, but rather eat and fast. Because kibble isn’t an ideal food source, it make’s your dog’s stomach too acidic, requiring them to eat twice a day to keep their stomach bile at bay. We have all had a dog puke up foul smelling yellow foam if a meal is late. When you free feed, you create a stomach environment that is consistently far too acidic. There is nothing wrong with a dog skipping a meal and waiting until the next one! It’s natural for dogs to self fast and can be very healthy, the same way I skip meals or eat light some days. Free feeding has even been linked to a shorter life span. This is why I recommend leaving food down for 15 minutes then picking it up until the next meal, regardless of how much my dog eats. If your dog is chronically disinterested in their food, they don’t like it or it doesn’t make them feel good and you need to find a different one. Imagine if you had to eat a brand of cereal you hated for every meal and couldn’t communicate with your owner how much you didn’t like it? Best to err on the side of caution and transition to something different.
Kibble Recommendations
Open Farm (This is my number one choice and the brand I ask everyone to switch to if their food isn’t working)
•Instinct
•Merrick
•Merrick wild freeze dried raw infused
•Canidae
•Wellness
•Wellness Core
•Fromm
•Natural Balance
•Zignature
Dehydrated
Fresh Food
Switching foods
When you try a new dry food, it is important to switch foods slowly. Some dogs with iron stomachs can tolerate a quick switch, but it is safest to switch slowly. Feeding each for two days: 1/8th, 1/4th, 1/2th, 3/4th of the new food until your dog is fully switched over. Your dog’s poo may be less that ideal during the transition if they are very sensitive, but ideally should balance out within a week to solid, contoured, and healthy looking.
When selecting a brand, do research online, but know that there is an evolution in quality within brands over time. Orijin and Merrick were two of my favorite foods until their popularity led to one of them being purchased by Purina, who promptly raised prices and lowered quality to the point where I stopped recommending them. How could I tell? The poo of the dog’s who were on those foods degraded to a level where I could tell their stomach were unhappy and the food was being padded with fillers. Fillers are nutritionally costly to a dog and can use more metabolic energy to push through the digestive process than is offset by the limited nutrition contained in the food.
Feeding Raw
Frozen pre-packaged raw food has become a popular option for owners who understand the benefits of going raw. These foods are expensive, easy and not quite completely sound from a raw perspective. These prepackaged bags can be a part of raw food, but are not a complete diet as they lack the bone that is an important source of fiber, jaw exercise and teeth cleaning that dog’s need. Raw bone, unlike cooked, is incredibly healthy for dogs and an essential part of the raw diet. Cooked bones, as most of us know, are dangerous for dogs as they are apt to splinter when being chewed and can even puncture their intestines. Raw bones, on the other hand, are healthy, safe and they provide natural exercise for a dog’s jaw and even help to keep teeth clean!
When transitioning, I fast my dog for a full 24 hours and make the switch completely, not feeling kibble again unless I am fully switching back. Begin by feeding one meat source only. I like to start with a chicken drumstick, thigh or back as chicken is easily digested and the bones are soft and easy to chew. After a day of fasting, most dogs are happy to be presented with raw meat for the first time in their life. They will start by licking it to begin breaking down the muscle, then chewing it, intuitively knowing how to consume whole meat. Some owners are concerned about giving their dog such a primal food source, but watching a dog eat their first piece of chicken is amazing and exciting. In a life that is mostly civilized, it is a rare opportunity to see your dog’s animal nature in action.
How much to feed
Picking the amount of food per day is trial and error. Shoot to feed 2-3% of your dog’s ideal body weight. My 12lb Dachshund eats a drumstick or one puck consisting of a bone, red muscle meat, organ combination that I get from the farmers market with enzymes and probiotic sprinkled on top. A 50lb dog who is getting substantial exercise will eat two chicken quarters a day, fed at once or split into two meals a day. I alternate between the bone in meat and pucks, feeding more when my dog looks skinny and less when she starts to lose her hourglass dip near her hips.
For raw, each meal should ideally be 65% muscle meat, 20% bone, 10% heart, 5% liver. Their general diet also contains 65% boned meat, such as chicken legs, backs and lamb necks for example. Suggested meat progressions when starting out on raw are chicken backs, chicken drumsticks or quarters, turkey necks, pork, fish canned in water such as salmon or mackerel or raw fish, lamb and beef. After a month, add in some organ meat like organic hearts, livers and kidneys. It’s important to get livers organic as they process what the conventionally raised animals are fed, which are not chemicals we want in our pets. It is also a good idea to introduce egg including the shell, garlic, apple cider vinegar, yogurt and leftovers from the fridge that you would eat yourself, not scraps of overly fatty meat, as well as some cooked or raw vegetables.
Raw poo
After an initial adjustment in their digestive process, your dog’s poo should be smaller, denser and break down into a white powder, unlike the poo of conventionally fed dogs, which do not break down over time, another red flag on their quality that even the flies don’t want to eat it. If your dog’s poo is too loose, add more bone. If it’s too dry or your dog is straining to get it out, add more muscle meat. Too much bone can cause constipation and the surplus of calcium can block the absorption of other nutrients. When my dog was on kibble I needed to pay to have her anal glands expressed and they now express naturally in the process of moving her firm, raw bowels.
Types of bones
Raw meaty bones (RMBs) that are large, inedible and have a small amount of meat, marrow and cartilage on them are a great form of recreation for your dog. I always have a bag in my freezer that I rinse under water and throw outside for my dog to enjoy. These bones are best purchased from a butcher, ethnic market or raw feeding cooperative as they will be much cheaper from those sources than from the pet store. These bones can be marrow, soup or knuckle. RMBs are gnawed on, not consumed and have little meat. Bones that can be fed and consumed include chicken necks, backs, and leg quarters; turkey necks; lamb breast and necks; pork breast (riblets) and necks; and canned fish with bones, such as jack mackerel, pink salmon, and sardines (packed in water rather than oil).
The bones that can be consumed should make up 30 to 50 percent (one third to one half) of the total diet, or possibly a little more if the parts you feed have a great deal more meat than bone (e.g., whole chickens or rabbits). The natural diet of the wolf in the wild contains 15 percent bone or less, based on the amount of edible bone in the large prey they feed upon. While a reasonable amount more won’t harm an adult dog, it’s not needed and reduces the amount of other valuable foods that can be fed.
Transitioning
This philosophy of feeding is referred to as the Whole Prey Model and is designed to mimic the experience of eating a whole animal that was caught and killed. While it may seem intimidating at first, feeding raw is quite easy and intuitive for both owner and dog. While your dog may have an initial ‘healing crisis’ that involves a dip of health now that they have a stable and nutritious diet and can address some chronic by minor health issues. After three months, your dog will show signs of abundant nutrition in their coat, eyes and ears. When strangers remark on how soft their coat is you will know you are there!
There are very few dogs who do not do well on a raw diet, or even more rare, don’t like it. It is important to approach it exactly the way I describe and not be seduced into going back to kibble as your dog adjusts their palate. For the first three days, offer a drumstick or bowl of meat mix twice a day, trying to find their preferred protein and favorite time to dine. If they don’t eat, simply pick it up and wait till the next meal. No dog will let themselves starve and the more stubborn pups need a bit more incentivizing to try something new. If after 3 days of fasting your dog still refuses to eat, try a different food source or go back to the best quality kibble you can find.
After a few months you should have a good sense of how much your dog eats, what types of proteins agree with them and what cuts of meat they prefer. This will help guide you in what and how much to purchase, but does take time to figure out. Utilizing the freezer helps ensure that nothing goes bad, although dogs can safely eat meat that is slightly beyond consumable for a human.
Feeding raw in Austin
I like to start out with a package of drumsticks or chicken quarters from the grocery store. I put 3-4 in a baggie, leaving one bag out in the fridge and freezing the rest. If you would like to buy in bulk, place an order with East Side Poultry. I let the box of meat defrost then separate and freeze it in baggies. Then I don’t have to worry about it for another month or two. For dogs, defrosting and refreezing meat is no problem as they will not turn their nose up at the texture.
For the pucks, I order from Jake and Blue, which now has home delivery as well as a stall at a farmers market. Be sure to get ground bone as the pucks can create loose poo and need that extra fiber to be added. We also order marrow bones from them to feed as a treat. I love the quality and these pucks seem to keep my dog more full than the grocery store brands, although some clients are happy on brands like Northeast Naturals available at Bark and Purr or Hollywood Feed.
There is another delivery service called Texas Tripe that drives through Austin once a month so owners can collect bulk amounts of meat. I used to buy their tripe and meat mix tubes, bulk boxes of chicken parts and bones.
There is a local raw feeding collective, ARF, but they require a monthly volunteer shift in order to have access to their collectively purchased meat sources so be ready to jump in with both feet!
I’m excited for you to start your dog food journey! Remember to move slowly when changing and supplementing your dog’s diet and follow my recommendations as closely as possible. This isn’t an area where there is much room for creativity. Imformation available from vets, pet stores and online articles will be confusing and contradictory, but after a decade of feeding my dog raw and helping owners transition to the raw diet, this post is a comprehensive guide for what I know to be true and effective. Just ask Harley! She is going strong after a decade and gets compliments on her soft coat and vitality all the time.
Every dog poops - What makes a good one?
A lot of clients have poo related questions, so I decided to go ahead and write a blog post so I could share what I know. This post contains a series of pictures and explanations to help you identify a healthy dog poop. Checking the quality of your dog’s poo is the best way to make sure your dog's food is agreeing with them. Dogs are mammals, so a healthy dog poo shouldn't look all that different from a healthy human poo.
The main factors I evaluate are size, density, color, smell and frequency. For each of these factors, I'm looking for moderation - the poo shouldn't be too big or small, too firm or soft, too light or dark, too stinky or acidic smelling or too frequent.
While dry dog food is the most convenient and common way to feed a dog, it is a fairly recent invention for dog diets, popularized after World War II as an easy and affordable way of feeding our dogs. While dogs have adapted to the diet, not all of them do well on kibble and, given their evolutionary history, that is no surprise. Before dry food became popular, dogs were fed a combination of scraps from the table and the butcher.
Today, those who don't feed dry food either cook for their dog or feed a raw diet (ideally the whole prey model).
Some of the dogs in my pack today are fed a raw diet, including my own. If anyone is interested in learning more, please contact me! I am a huge proponent of this diet and have seen dogs with troubled digestive systems have the first healthy poo of their lives after eating raw.
That being said, and as you will see in the photos, there are also dogs that do well on dry food. Your dog’s poo is the best testimony to your food! If you are so inclined, keep reading to take a look at the photos of today's dog poo and my evaluations of each. For purposes of privacy, the dogs will be kept anonymous. I am not a veterinarian, but I am around a lot of dog poo! Taking out 5- 8 dogs a day, I am guaranteed to see (and pick up) more that most owners see every day. Over the course of a year, that adds up! From dealing with dogs of different sizes, history, breeds and ages and talking to owners about different foods, I have learned a few things I would like to share.